A FW Alternative to Menu Planning

Meal Preparation

        Menu plans can save so much money and time, however, some homemakers are just not menu plan types of women.  For these women, Mrs. Andelin suggested another way to make sure one’s family eats healthy and time and money can be saved.  She shared this in the Fascinating Womanhood Workbook for Students, where she wrote the following, quoted with permission, on page eighty-eight:

“If you weary at the thought of planning menus a week or so ahead, you may be interested in this alternative: Organize a list of foods your family likes.  When shopping for the week’s groceries, use this list as a guide, and as you plan each day’s menu, look over this list for ideas.  Menus are best planned the evening before.  When you complete the list, put it in a plastic page cover.  This list can be updated from time to time.”

        She then gave six or seven examples of foods that a family liked under each of the following headings: 

Casseroles

Meats

Vegetables

Salads

Hot Breads

Desserts

Soups and Stews

Sandwiches

Beverages

        One 2012 Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska Fascinating Womanhood course student shared the following about this plan, how she tweaked it for her family, and how it’s worked for them:  

“I am glad that FW mentioned menus. A few weeks ago I noticed that we were basically eating the same thing over and over again. No one had any ideas when I asked them what did they want and it was getting annoying. So I sat down with my cookbook and looked at all the recipes that I had made that I knew we liked. I wrote everyone down and came up with at least 40 different recipes. I divided them into categories (Chicken, beef, fish) and made sure we didn’t have the same kind of meat as the night before. I printed it off and I go shopping for “Just that week” I must say that in the three weeks I have been using it not only is everyone more excited about dinner but I save at least $50 a week. Everyday I check it, decide what time I need to start dinner and defrost, marinate, or soak anything needed overnight for the next day. Now I will admit this did take some time to sit down and do it but if I keep up with it in the future it is going to save me a lot of time and worry.”

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        In addition to what she shared above, the FW~A 2012 student shared a wonderful and inspiring thing that she did:

“I also wanted to add that a few years ago I had so many cookbooks I didn’t know what to do and I could never remember which recipe was in which book. So, I started my own cookbook in a binder (crediting where I got the recipe from of course), paper, and page protectors. Everytime I cooked a recipe that we ended up liking I typed it on a word document, saved it, printed it off, and stuck it in my binder. It has helped me so much. 

“My daughter is graduating high school next year and askedwhen she moves out would I please print all the pages for her.”

        In our day and age we can save our menus as computer files to pull and edit as needed.  If a recipe gets ruined, it’s just a computer print-out away!  We can also, like the wonderful Fascinating Woman from the course, print our own unique family recipe books to share. 

        Perhaps you’ve heard the saying, “Failing to plan is planning to fail”…  So whether you’re a menu planner or a day-by-day kind of homemaker, there is a way to plan healthy meals for your family – the Fascinating Way! 

A Bit of a Sidenote:

        In writing of recipe books…  A Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska free, high-quality, healthy cookbook is in the works for readers!  It contains recipes from Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska course alumni as well as our family and *should* be available to women who follow this blog within a year, God willing!  It will also contain a few articles and some helpful tips!  

        It’s exciting that such a book is coming into existence – thank you to all of you for providing the moral support to FW~A which makes such things possible! 

        If you are not already a follower of FW~A but would like to know when the recipe book is ready or receive updates on it, just click the “Sign Me Up” button on the right or join FW~A on Facebook.  

A Fascinating Womanhood Success Story: Positivity Works!

        The following success story was recently shared and is an excellent example of how the Fascinating Womanhood principles of acceptance, appreciation, and admiration, which are all very positive, work to bring happiness and positive growth to a marriage: 

“When I filled out the list of my husband’s faults, one of the things I had written down was regarding the way he dressed. Beside it, in brackets, I wrote “does it really matter?”.

“My husband is a carpenter. His work clothes are just that. They are stained, ripped and torn. He is comfortable in his work clothes. He is comfortable greeting company in our home in jeans minus the knees! This has bothered me for many years but I have refrained from saying anything to him because he is such a good man.
His usual attire for Mass is a pair of clean jeans without holes and a t-shirt. Again, I have always refrained from any comment. I wear dresses or skirts to Mass because I am having an encounter with the King of all Kings.

“Two weeks ago he came out of the bedroom wearing a nicely ironed dress shirt tucked into his really dressy jeans-they are black. I commented on how handsome he was in his shirt. This past Friday evening he was taking me out to supper and again wore a nicely ironed shirt with “good” jeans. While enjoying our time together I again commented on how handsome he was how fortunate I was to be seen with such a handsome man. I told him I was probably the envy of the other ladies in the restaurant. Yesterday he dressed for Mass in a pair of dress pants and a dress shirt!

“All this and never a negative word spoken :) I hope to never forget to comment on how handsome he is when he wears “good” clothes.

“Yesterday; Mother’s Day, was another success story of love and tenderness but it may take me a while to gather the words to share. For now I am relishing in his attention.

A FW~A Fascinating Womanhood Course Success Story: Her Husband’s New Found Confidence

        The following testimony was shared earlier this year by a woman who took the online Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska Fascinating Womanhood course.  It is wonderful to have such an example of how a wife who lives the teachings of FW can be of such help to her husband!

“I just finished Nikki’s FW course a few weeks ago. I absolutely loved it. It was amazing to see the changes in our marriage and home from the FW teachings.

“I wanted to take a moment and share something that I think is VERY exciting. My husband has been a truck driver for two years now, so it has been pretty much single parenting for me. I have been hoping and praying that he could get something local, but it just wasn’t happening. This wasn’t due to a lack of him trying and applying for jobs but it never worked out. He had gotten extremely discouraged and felt it wouldn’t ever happen. After starting the FW course and really trying to live by the FW teachings, his “tune” changed and he started to talk about getting a local job and feeling that it would happen this time around. So a couple of weeks ago he applied for several new jobs.

“This past Monday he was called for an interview for a local job. He went in on Tuesday and was offered the job before he left the office.
It was amazing to see the difference in his confidence. He went into applying for jobs with a new excitement and determination that it would happen. I made sure I was giving him encouragement and living FW. I feel like his new confidence for applying for jobs was in large part due to his happiness and the security he feels now. So for that, I say thank you to Nikki! If you hadn’t taught this course I feel that I wouldn’t have been living FW as well and he may not have had that new found confidence.”

FW~A Fascinating Womanhood Couse Testimonial: “Our Home has Changed”

         The following testimonial was shared by a woman who had taken the Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska online Fascinating Womanhood course this year:

“Thank you so much for teaching the course.  As others have said, I also have seen big changes since beginning the class.  Working through each chapter with the workbook helped me learn how to put the book into practice.  I still have a long way to go, but am avoiding many big mistakes that I was making before.  Our relationship is so much more peaceful and full of encouraging words.  I enjoyed the last chapter on childlike anger.  My husband is a strong man and I am an extra sensitive woman.  So, while I have not had many reasons for it lately, I am sure it will come in handy when I need it!  I love having tools to help turn a man’s frustration or impatience into amusement or laughter :-) .  What a blessing!  Instead of being hurt and angry I will be able to use my girlish charms :-) .  It is really amazing to think about the marriages that would be saved if women knew and understood men as God created them and not as our culture says they should be!!  I am so thankful the Lord led me to this book and class so I can help build up my husband instead of tearing him down as I unknowingly was doing before.  He has noticed and responded with so much love and tenderness. :-) .  It has been a true blessing for us.  I look forward to the housekeeping class!”

         Are you interested in changing your home for the better?  In bringing Godly order – which is rewarded with heavenly blessings – to your marriage and family?  Click here to find information on the next free online Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska Fascinating Womanhood course and let’s work together to make these changes happen!

Live Fascinating Womanhood Study Group: Southwest Wisconsin, USA

    If you are a reader who is interested in participating in this study group, e-mail stalsbergfam(at)frontiernet.net.

Location – Southwest Wisconsin, USA

Total Cost Per Participant – $30

Additional Information that You’d Like for Women Considering Participating in Your Group to Know – FW has made all the difference in my marriage. As a result, I hope to bless others and impart enthusiasm for it by sharing its teachings with women in Vernon County and surrounding areas.

Have You Ever Been an Authorized Fascinating Womanhood Teacher? - No.

How Many Women can Participate in Your Study Group? - 15

Why Should a Woman Participate in Your Group? - To learn about how to be blessed in marriage and her God-given role as wife, and to do so in an environment of love and acceptance.

Your Brief Testimony of Personal Success in Living the Teachings of Fascinating Womanhood - Three years ago my marriage nearly ended. During this time, however, I felt God nudging me to fight to save it. I read Scripture and realized that I had failed in my role as wife. I wanted to start over but didn’t know how. God was merciful to me though, and as I read the Bible I began to comprehend things about being a wife that I never had before. Slowly, my marriage began to improve. Still, after a few months I felt I needed some practical application of Biblical principles. That’s when I discovered Fascinating Womanhood. I also found out that online FW classes were offered and jumped at the chance to join. During the class I worked hard at applying the teachings of FW and began to see amazing changes. Most astonishing to me was that it really was a change that was happening inside me – not just on the outside! My attitude improved and so did my relationship with my husband. I made sure to accept, admire, and appreciate him; for the first time in seventeen years I felt loved by him! The rest of the teachings brought a great number of changes as well. Additionally, our children noticed and were very grateful for the added security in their home. I hope any woman, no matter how she would currently rate her marriage, would consider reading and applying the teachings of FW. I know that once she began she would consider it the journey of a lifetime!

FW~A Fascinating Womanhood Success Story: Hope and Happiness

     Many, many American families have suffered financially during The Great Recession.  The following testimony was recently written by a woman who took the Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska online Fascinating Womanhood  course within the past year and can offer women something money can’t buy: hope for not only successfully working through financial problems the Fascinating Way, but building a happier marriage at the same time:

“I’ve been working as much as possible on the inner qualities of FW. I’ve been focusing especially on the three A’s (admiration, appreciation, acceptance) and making my husband number one. I had originally planned on writing in the evening, but have decided that if I can’t get any in during the day, I won’t even bother. My husband needs my attention after he comes home from work and that need usually lasts all evening. He’s okay when the kids interrupt (unless he’s had a really hard day) but he gets hurt if I put writing above him as well. So now the evenings are mostly focused on him. The funny part is, when I do that, he often has energy to take the kids somewhere or help around the house. Not always, but it happens more often than it once did.

“I’ve also been focusing on becoming a domestic goddess/queen and inner happiness. I figure if I start with inner happiness, radiant happiness should be easier. Plus, my husband is big on sincerity. If I do what we call “the chick fine”* he’ll get upset because I’m not being honest with my feelings. So, I’ve been trying to get back into FlyLady and I’ve been focusing more on writing (during the day). I’ve even been testing the waters with self-publishing. Oh, and because I love manga, I’ve started learning Japanese. It’s difficult to fit all this in, but I try to stay relaxed about it and do the best I can.

“So, the result? My husband switched jobs.

“We have, through various circumstances, accumulated a lot of debt. It’s bothered me for some time. When I took the FW course last year, one of the questions was “What is your greatest financial wish at this time?”. I put down, “To be debt-free.” But I didn’t think anything of it because my husband has a very different view of credit than I do.

“Time passes and I struggle with FW, though I gradually get better at living the principles, including following my husband in how he wanted to spend the money he earned. (This, by the way, was very different from when we first married. I would have come unglued at the thought of using credit the way we have in the past few years. I came unglued over far smaller things and, as a result, made him feel less than adequate as a leader in our home, even though I thought I was being a “partner” to him.) I eventually gave up on the Wife’s Budget because the amount is too small. I do try to keep as much off the credit cards as I can and more than once my husband tells me he appreciates it. Still, it’s discouraging.

“Then, one of my husband’s co-workers mentions Dave Ramsey to him. Now, my husband knew who he was because I’d checked out books by him at the library (back when I hadn’t let go of my husband’s money). He hadn’t looked at them at the time. This time, he starts reading the book his co-worker loans him.

“It is really amazing the change that came over him. For a long time, he was willing to let things stay as they were with our finances. But the past few months, he’s been trying to make the budget work. The result of this change was that he realized he wasn’t making enough to cover our family’s expenditures. An opportunity for a job that paid better came along and he took it. He loves his old job, he loves the location, he loves almost everything about it, but when we talked about it, he told me that he took the new job for our family. I almost broke down when I heard that.

“He has a plan in place that will wipe out the debt we’ve accumulated. And it’s looking like it might actually happen. So, even though life is stressful right now, it’s a good kind of stress. I’m really happy.

“*Note: the “chick fine” = when a woman is upset or something is bothering her and, instead of saying it, ends a discussion regarding the topic with “Fine.”  It’s not fine, but she’d rather stuff her feelings than face whatever nastiness might occur from being honest.

“P.S. I’ve made a note of this in my Love Booklet. For those who are resisting making or buying their own Love Booklet, I strongly recommend it. I tried living FW without it and got very discouraged. When I took the FW course Nikki offered, I still resisted because it sounded corny. I only did it because I promised myself to do whatever the lessons required unless I knew for a fact that the assignment wouldn’t help. However, after I started the booklet, I found living FW became much easier. On days when I struggled or when I thought FW wasn’t working, I got out my booklet and read about all the changes that had taken place so far. It kept, and keeps, me going.”

FW~A (Near) Daily Encouragement: Inspiring Testimony

        The following testimonial was recently shared by a wonderful woman who has taken the Fascinating Womanhood ~ Alaska online Fascinating Womanhood course:

“I love when others notice the fascinating lifestyle playing out in your life. People notice when you are truly being a woman by the way you walk, talk, sit, your speech. It is truly a wonderful thing for someone to come up to you and tell you they don’t know what it is but they are just spellbound by you. It was another woman who said this to me this past weekend. Which made me feel very good. I have been feeling down with my dealing with my weight. But it helped me also to take and start today on a whole new plan and work off this weight. Not to mention to continue doing what I have been doing with the fascinating womanhood lifestyle.”

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